Saturday, July 19, 2008

" Let's make hay, while the women fight." Its a Man's world

A " respectable " fifty-five year old woman kept screaming into the microphone, " prostitution should be banned ", and women engaged in the flesh trade; driven out of the society, considering the number of homes, and relationships that have gone kaput because of these " notorious creatures !! ". The peroration however, seemed to have been rehearsed for over a thousand times, for the sheer intensity with which the words, " a woman is a woman's worst enemy " were mouthed, it ended up giving me a plenty of goose bumps !!


The tiny hall errupted into a riot of applause. A few, " well said madam " and pointless congratulations hung heavily in the air. The women folk transformed her into a kind of totemic mother, and the few men who constituted the clique, were more than happy to inch closer and offer their niceties, and all the while sneaking a look at the cleavage of her over generous bosom, blazing beneath the thin drape of her black saree.


Oh no no, she wasnt a slut!! She certainly belonged to the respectable stratas of human society, who seem to have a pre-concieved notion by which they gauge the degrees of goodness and degrees of evils in the society. She showed men around her enough, to think that she had good stuff coming up, but didnt show things that would make them pounce upon her. She obviously is not a slut!! She cannot be a slut!!


Looking beyond her sartorial decollete, she appeared to be a mere representative of the Conventional Morality, who would stand on roof tops and yell, " you have done wrong, and in the larger interest of the society, we the custodians of culture, must punish you. And if we cannot then God will. "


It almost seems to be an auto-suggestive idea that God will always be there on their side. Why on earth would God risk swapping sides with a woman who sells her body every night, lets men rip off of her insides in exchange of a few spondulicks?? naah.............God isnt foolish enough to do that, after all isnt the image of God concieved to be that of a Man??


No woman is a born prostitute. But a woman who beds different men every night.................is she that bad?? Her ways may offend the unwritten corollary of the society, and the Conventional Morality, but then who the hell are these people to pass opinions and judgements, on how a woman chooses to earn money? who knows what circumstances drove her into this trade, every woman has her own reasons.


But why blame the woman? Why is she able to sell her body? The answer is quite obvious. Because there are plenty of " respectable " men, married men, fathers of families, all ready with cash in hand to buy a night with that body called " woman ". The Man doesnt seem to realise that everytime he penetrates her, he's actually making incisions on her already bruised and withered soul, but these " notorious creatures " ( according to that respectable woman ), are not meant to possess anything similar to that of a soul. She is not supposed to " feel".



Men will continue to enjoy their status of penetrators, as long as the virtuous and " respectable " women around the world make them believe that women indeed are the " notorious creatures " on earth. There's hardly any doubt that a woman is a woman's worst enemy, coz she would rehearse a thousand times to successfully cast aspersions on creatures of her own sex!!


Now Playing:: Jaane woh kaise......................Pyaasa ( 1957 )

7 comments:

Debasish Patra said...

"representative of the
Conventional Morality"

dats a smart line !

Yeah, there r ppl who work fr so called 'larger interest' of ppl..
and dese r d ppl, who actually run d country.

U actually made me think a lot, I had these thots bfr also...but ur clarity struck me .

#btw ur 'Now Reading' Doctor's looks gr8 ;)

Anupam said...

lol.................i had 2 luk up 4 dat wrd spondulicks in d dictionry:)

i kno there was a dig at our tribe, although indirect, but all men are not like dat.

penetrators!! ummm..................go easy on ur wrds!

excellent writin as usual;)

Debasish Patra said...

U hav been TAGGED !!!

:)

onelife said...

sartorial decollete..................so u mean 2 say dat the 55 yr old woman was no less than a slut!!!!! nice write up. one which sets the mind thinking, irrespective of the gender.

Deepika said...

* debasish

yea a bunch of hypocrites do seem to run the society according to their own whims and fancies!!
I owe the Doctors to u ;)
Tag seems to be a lot of work, but could be fun actually:)


* anupam

well spondulicks is a 19th century coinage;)
dig at ur tribe??? hmmmm
it wasnt meant 2 be dat way, but i do agree dat at times generalizations can create probs!!
well penetrators is actually metaphorical;)


* onelife

well i did think so, but i'm glad u liked it:)

Sir Charlemagne said...

Amazing work....hav read ur blog many times n every visit , i luv it evn more....

thought provoking rite up...of course we cant pass judgements ovr what forced a woman into such trades...bt the point is...given a chance.,....hw many of those(after years of experience in prostitution) wud wanna try their hand at actual/conventional work.?...n is yes.,,...who wud give them employment?.

Deepika said...

* Sir Charlemagne

thanx a tonne :)

hmmm even this trade comes wid an expiry date n seeking conventional employment seems out of d world n for a fresh start the past has to be buried!!